This is a poem I wrote just for the sake of writing it. A hobby of mine. Writing, creative writing, and blogging are my main hobbies. All around the same thing but I get different sort of satisfaction from each one. And they are vital to my well-being.
One thing that helps me get through the pain and the suffering is my creative pursuits. Poetry, novel writing, blogging, designing memes for my Facebook Pages. I lose myself in these pursuits. They are important to me for the sheer sake of my desire to do them. Important to me for consuming me so I don’t have to think about the pain. Lets me think about something else for a bit. Something just for me. Not that I do not share my creations, but the creating itself is just for me.
And they are important to my self-care. To:
- decrease stress
- help with mood regulation
- keep me mentally active
I have my thing. That thing that helps me deal with pain by absorbing me into something else. Something that is mine, not an obligation and also no one else’s.
So what is your thing?
What do you do to escape from the pain?
To get beyond the pain?
To consume you and absorb you such that for a moment the pain isn’t your focus?
- Glass work
- I could go on
- And on and on, my friends
Just recognize a hobby is a flexible term. People seem to think playing video games isn’t a hobby, but it is and studies say the same thing about video games… unless you play excessively, then mood goes down. I assume that would be the case with all things. Too much of a good thing is, well, obsessive. Exercise can be a hobby; such as regularly taking a walk every day to enjoy the walk and scenery itself as well as the improved health. Some of us have one hobby and are really into that. Some of us have a few and we spread out the time between them. Some of us have one and it is seasonal, like golfing. Or have one we spend about 2 hours a week on. Whatever it is it is important to you. It is something you choose to value and do.
Sometimes people feel guilty about spending time on their hobby or activity rather than something productive like a household chore. Remember, Self-care is important. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. We need to moderate ourselves around the housework and yardwork. Our work. This is for our self-care. Mental and emotional wellbeing. Stress reliever. While it is not Necessary, it does help us feel better about everything and that counts for so much. Thinking about suffering all the time, in that headspace, is not where we want to be stuck.
It is vital to remember that other aspects of our lives like socializing and hobbies are important to maintain our well-being. We cannot expend all our energy on the things we Have to do, with nothing left for ourselves. When that happens we end up saying ‘I have an existence, not a life’. We all need to have some sort of balance. So do your thing and don’t feel guilty about it. We are as human as everyone else. We deserve the same efforts to our personal life and well-being as everyone else.
See also: Self-care Sunday: Coloring
Here are my published works from my pursuit of creative writing